How to Effectively Co-Parent on Non-Traditional Instruction (NTI) Days
One common challenge when raising kids between two households is handling Non-Traditional Instruction (NTI) days—those unplanned days when schools close due to weather events like snow, flooding, or unforeseen circumstances like a waterline break, and students are expected to learn from home.
When NTI days happen, they can quickly unravel even the most well-organized co-parenting schedules. But with some planning, communication, and flexibility, NTI days don’t have to be a source of stress or conflict. Here are practical strategies to help you manage NTI days while keeping your child’s well-being at the forefront.
1. Review Your Parenting Plan and Custody Agreement
Before addressing NTI day logistics, it's critical to review your current custody order or parenting agreement. Some parenting plans in Kentucky address school closures and unexpected days at home. Look specifically for language like:
Who is responsible for care when school is out unexpectedly?
How are snow days or emergency closures handled?
Does the parent who would have had the child after school that day keep them for the entire day?
If your agreement is silent on NTI days, that’s your signal that proactive communication is key.
2. Communicate Early and Often
When an NTI day is announced, ideally both parents should communicate as soon as possible. Use whatever method works best for you—whether that's text, email, a shared calendar app, or even a quick phone call. The goal is to get on the same page fast.
Consider discussing:
Where the child will physically stay during the NTI day.
Who is responsible for helping with NTI assignments.
Pickup and drop-off adjustments.
Work schedules and availability.
Sample Text:
“Hi! Just saw that school is NTI tomorrow because of the water main issue. I can adjust my work schedule to stay home with [Child], but if you’re available, we can figure out what works best. Let me know what you’re thinking.”
This helps set a collaborative tone rather than assuming one parent is solely responsible.
3. Prioritize the Child’s Routine and Educational Needs
NTI days are not just a day off; they’re school days happening at home. Co-parents should work together to ensure that the child:
Logs into necessary online classrooms.
Completes assigned work.
Has a quiet and productive environment to study.
Receives any needed support with challenging subjects.
If one parent is better equipped to assist with schoolwork or has a more flexible workday, it might make sense for the child to stay at that parent’s home on NTI days—even if it’s not “their day” under your usual parenting time schedule. Being child-focused helps avoid conflict.
4. Share Resources and Responsibilities
Many Kentucky parents are balancing full-time work with unexpected NTI days. If both parents are working or otherwise unavailable during the school day, consider options like:
A trusted family member or babysitter who can supervise NTI work.
Dividing the day (one parent handles morning, the other afternoon).
Alternating responsibility if NTI days pile up over a winter season.
Also, share any login details, assignment lists, or special instructions the child’s teacher sends out. Even small courtesies like forwarding emails from school help maintain smooth transitions.
5. Keep the Long Game in Mind: Flexibility and Fairness
Co-parenting success hinges on being adaptable. If one parent covers several NTI days in a row due to their flexible work schedule, it may be appropriate to offer make-up time, an extra weekend, or some other accommodation to keep things equitable.
This is particularly important if NTI days fall disproportionately on one parent's scheduled time. Kentucky courts appreciate when parents work together to find solutions that prioritize the child over rigid schedules.
6. Plan Ahead for NTI Season
In Kentucky, snow days and other disruptions are common in the winter months. Consider having an annual conversation at the start of the school year to address:
How you’ll handle NTI days.
Work schedules and availability.
Technology needs (does both homes have the necessary internet and devices?).
Emergency backup plans.
If you find that NTI days are a frequent source of conflict, it may be worthwhile to modify your parenting agreement to include clearer guidelines. This can often be done through mediation without needing to return to court.
7. Remember the Emotional Impact on Your Child
Finally, keep in mind that NTI days can be stressful for kids, too. Disrupted routines, confusing hand-offs, and pressure to complete schoolwork in less-than-ideal settings can take a toll. As co-parents, presenting a united, calm, and cooperative front helps your child feel secure.
Offer reassurance, keep transitions smooth, and support them in getting their work done without turning NTI days into a battleground between parents.
Conclusion
NTI days are an inevitable part of school life in Kentucky. How you handle them as co-parents can set the tone for how your child experiences these disruptions. With clear communication, a spirit of cooperation, and thoughtful planning, NTI days can be just another challenge you successfully navigate together.
If you're struggling with NTI day arrangements or need help modifying your parenting plan to account for them, my office is here to help. Reach out to schedule a consultation so we can create a plan that works for your family—not just on the good days, but on the unpredictable ones, too. If you are interested in doing so, you may contact my office at (859) 287-4078 or info@jdcooklaw.com (or fill out an inquiry form on our website homepage) for a consultation.
Narrow, Outdated, Scientifically Inaccurate: Unpacking Federal Directives Related to Gender
An Executive Order, issued on January 20, 2025, by President Donald Trump, primarily seeks to define and enforce a binary, biological understanding of sex (male and female), rejecting the concept of gender identity as separate from biological sex. The order takes aim at what it calls "gender ideology," which it criticizes for promoting fluid and subjective notions of gender identity that are divorced from biological reality.
Key Points of the Order:
Biological Essentialism: The order insists on recognizing only two sexes—male and female—based on immutable biological characteristics, which it argues must be the basis for all legal and policy decisions.
Defining "Sex" and "Gender": It distinguishes between "sex" (biological, unchangeable) and "gender" (which it sees as a subjective, ideological concept), claiming that gender identity is internally inconsistent and incompatible with legal frameworks that depend on biological sex.
Policy Enforcement: The order mandates that federal agencies cease promoting gender ideology, redefine women’s and men’s roles strictly in terms of biological sex, and ensure that spaces such as prisons and shelters remain segregated by biological sex.
Gender Identity and Legal Rights: It argues that policies allowing individuals to access single-sex spaces based on gender identity (such as in schools or shelters) harm women’s safety and legal rights.
Reversal of Previous Policies: The order also seeks to undo or amend policies from the previous administration that acknowledged gender identity protections, such as the 2020 Bostock v. Clayton County decision, which expanded workplace protections to include sexual orientation and gender identity.
Harmful Aspects and Misinformation:
Misrepresentation of Gender Identity: The executive order frames gender identity as "subjective" and "fluid," implying that it is disconnected from biology and therefore invalid. This misrepresents the experiences of transgender people, who typically have a deep and consistent understanding of their gender identity, which does not align with their assigned sex at birth. Denying this reality perpetuates stigma and discrimination against transgender people, particularly transgender women who would be excluded from spaces meant for women.
Denial of Scientific Understanding: Modern science recognizes that sex and gender are more complex than a simple binary. While biological sex (e.g., chromosomes, reproductive organs) is typically categorized as male or female, gender is increasingly understood as a spectrum that encompasses a range of identities beyond this binary. The order misrepresents the scientific consensus on this matter, which acknowledges that gender identity is an important aspect of human identity and that it can be fluid or not always align with assigned sex at birth.
Harm to Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Individuals: The order is harmful to transgender and gender non-conforming individuals by denying them legal recognition of their gender identity, effectively erasing their experiences. Policies that force individuals to conform to a strict male/female binary can exacerbate discrimination and harm, particularly in settings such as healthcare, prisons, and shelters, where transgender individuals may face violence or neglect if they are not properly accommodated.
Impact on Women’s Rights: The order claims to "defend women's rights" by preventing transgender women from using women’s spaces. However, this framing falsely suggests that the rights of cisgender women are inherently in conflict with the rights of transgender women. In reality, protecting transgender rights, including access to single-sex spaces consistent with their gender identity, does not diminish the rights or safety of cisgender women. The order's focus on this false dichotomy undermines both women's rights and the dignity of transgender people.
Undermining Legal Protections: By reversing or restricting legal recognition of gender identity in federal policies, the order undermines critical protections for LGBTQ+ people. For example, the reversal of the Bostock ruling, which expanded civil rights protections under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, threatens the legal recognition of transgender people in the workplace. This could lead to increased discrimination and legal challenges to rights that have already been secured through court rulings.
Increased Social Division: The framing of the order as a battle between "biological reality" and "gender ideology" fosters division and antagonism toward LGBTQ+ people, particularly transgender people. Rather than promoting understanding, this order contributes to a culture of discrimination and misinformation, leading to a less inclusive and more polarized society.
Conclusion:
The January 20, 2025 Executive Order is harmful because it relies on a narrow, outdated, and scientifically inaccurate understanding of sex and gender. It spreads misinformation about transgender identities, reduces the dignity and rights of transgender people, and undermines legal protections based on gender identity. While it claims to protect women’s rights, it does so in a way that divides rather than unites, fostering an environment of discrimination and exclusion.
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Newly Single? New Baby? New Business?: Simple Wills for When Life Becomes Less Simple
A Last Will and Testament is a crucial legal document that ensures your assets, belongings, and personal affairs are handled according to your wishes after you pass away. While some may think a will is only necessary for the wealthy or elderly, the truth is that everyone can benefit from having one, especially after significant life events such as a divorce, the birth of a child, or changes in assets. If you haven’t yet created a will—or if it’s been a while since you’ve updated it—this post will help guide you through the process and explain why having even a “simple” will in place can provide you with peace of mind.
What is a Last Will and Testament?
A Last Will and Testament is a legal document that specifies how a person’s estate—meaning their money, property, and other assets—should be distributed after their death. A simple will typically includes the following:
Appointment of an Executor: The person you choose to carry out the terms of your will. This individual will be responsible for managing your estate, paying any debts, and ensuring that your assets are distributed as outlined.
Beneficiaries: The people or organizations you wish to inherit your assets. This can include family, friends, and even charities.
Guardianship of Minor Children: If you have young children, you can designate a guardian who will care for them in the event of your death. This is often one of the most important elements of a will for parents.
Distribution of Assets: A simple will specifies who receives which assets, including real estate, bank accounts, personal belongings, and other valuables and objects of high sentimental value.
While a simple will doesn’t get into complex estate planning strategies (like trusts, tax avoidance, or charitable planning), it serves as the foundation for ensuring that your wishes are followed and your loved ones are taken care of.
Why Should You Have a Will?
Many people think that if they don’t have a will, their family will automatically receive everything they would want them to, but that’s not the case. If you die without a will, the state will intervene and distribute your assets according to state law, which may not align with your preferences. This can lead to:
Family disputes over who gets what
Unwanted individuals inheriting your property
The state deciding who will care for your children
Simply put, having a will ensures that you have a say in what happens after you pass away. Even if you don’t think you have much to leave behind, a will helps ensure that whatever assets you do have go to the people you care about most.
How Life Events Like Divorce, New Children, or Changes in Assets Make Updating Your Will Critical
1. After a Divorce:
Divorce is a life-altering event, and it often comes with major financial, familial, and emotional changes. If you have a will in place before a divorce, it’s critical to update it afterward to reflect your new situation.
Children and Step-Children as Beneficiaries: If you have children from a previous marriage or relationship, you may want to ensure that they are properly named as beneficiaries in your updated will. You also may want to revise guardianship provisions for minor children in case both parents pass away.
Executors: If your ex-spouse was appointed as the executor of your estate, you’ll likely need to name someone else to fill this role. You may want to assign a trusted family member or friend to carry out your wishes.
2. After the Birth of a Child (or Children):
The birth of a child is one of the most significant life changes, and it’s essential to update your will as soon as possible to ensure your new baby’s future is properly planned for.
Guardianship: If you pass away while your children are still minors, you need to designate someone to take care of them. Choosing a guardian is one of the most important decisions parents can make in their will. Ideally, this is someone who shares your values, parenting style, and is willing and able to take on the responsibility.
3. After Significant Changes in Assets or Financial Situation:
As life unfolds, it’s common to experience fluctuations in your wealth and property, whether it’s through a new job, a real estate transaction, an inheritance, or the acquisition of significant assets. Whenever there’s a major shift in your financial situation, updating your will ensures that your assets are distributed in accordance with your current intentions.
New Assets: If you acquire a new home, start a business, or inherit valuable items, your will should reflect those assets to avoid confusion and misallocation of property.
Debt and Liabilities: Your will can also specify how your debts should be handled and whether any specific debts need to be paid off before your beneficiaries inherit anything, your funeral and burial expenses can be provided for out of the residue of your estate as well.
The Importance of Simplicity
For many, the idea of creating a will seems overwhelming, especially if they’re unsure where to start or how complex the process might be. Fortunately, a simple will can be a quick and effective solution for most people, particularly those who are newly divorced, have recently had children, or have undergone significant financial changes.
A simple will doesn’t require complex legal language or the creation of complicated trusts. It typically involves straightforward provisions, including naming beneficiaries, appointing an executor, and determining guardianship of children. For the majority of people, a simple will is entirely sufficient to ensure their wishes are carried out.
Conclusion
Your will is a tool that gives you control over what happens to your assets and your loved ones after your death. By having a simple, well-thought-out will in place, you can avoid family disputes, protect your children, and ensure that everything you’ve worked for is passed on to the people or causes you care about most.
Life is unpredictable, and changes can happen unexpectedly—so take the time now to safeguard your family’s future by creating or updating your will. If you are interested in doing so, you may contact my office at (859) 287-4078 or info@jdcooklaw.com (or fill out an inquiry form on our website homepage) for a consultation.
Co-Parenting in Inclement Weather: Why Safety and Flexibility Matter More Than a Rigid Schedule
Whether it's a heavy snowstorm, torrential rain, or dangerous wind conditions, weather events can create stressful situations for parents trying to stick to a strict parenting schedule. In these circumstances, flexibility, compromise, and the safety of the child should always take precedence over rigid adherence to a predefined plan.
Co-parents need to work together and put their child's safety above all else — even if it means adjusting the parenting schedule temporarily.
Flexibility in Co-Parenting Is Essential
Co-parenting requires ongoing communication, mutual respect, and a shared focus on what's best for the child. Parenting schedules are essential tools that help ensure consistency and stability in a child's life, but the reality is that life is unpredictable. And weather-related disruptions are a perfect example of when a strict, black-and-white adherence to a parenting plan might not be the most appropriate course of action.
Here’s why flexibility is vital:
Safety Should Always Be the Priority
When it comes to bad weather, the safety of your child is paramount. If roads are icy, flooded, or closed due to a storm, it’s not safe for anyone to travel, especially for children. Even if the parenting schedule calls for the child to go to the other parent’s home, safety considerations should override that plan.
Example: If you are the custodial parent, and a snowstorm is forecasted for the day your child is supposed to be picked up by the other parent, it’s much safer to delay the exchange than to risk the child being in a car during hazardous conditions. This might mean you need to communicate with your co-parent to let them know the situation and work out an alternative arrangement.
Children Benefit from a Stress-Free Environment
Children pick up on stress and tension in their environment. If you and your co-parent are rigidly insisting that the child be moved between homes, regardless of dangerous weather conditions, you might inadvertently add stress to the child’s day. A last-minute change to the schedule — especially when it’s made for safety reasons — can also reduce anxiety, as the child knows that their well-being is the priority.
Example: Imagine a parent is driving in treacherous conditions to meet a scheduled exchange. This could create anxiety for both the parent and the child. If the parent reschedules and communicates clearly about the weather-related concern, the child will likely feel safer and more secure.
Compromise Enhances Cooperation Between Co-Parents
A rigid stance on sticking to a parenting schedule — even in unsafe conditions — can escalate conflict and undermine the cooperative nature of co-parenting. On the other hand, when both parents are willing to compromise and adjust the plan when necessary, they foster a more collaborative and respectful relationship.
Example: If you and your co-parent are on the same page about flexibility in cases of bad weather, you’re not only creating a safer environment for your child but also setting a positive example of cooperation and problem-solving for them. This can help both parents model how to handle unexpected situations with maturity and thoughtfulness.
Inclement Weather Is an Opportunity to Model Reasonable Flexibility for Your Child
Children are learning how to navigate the world through the behavior of their parents. When you and your co-parent demonstrate flexibility, patience, and problem-solving skills, you’re teaching your child valuable life lessons. Life is unpredictable, and teaching children how to adapt to changing circumstances can help them manage future challenges with confidence.
Example: If you and your co-parent handle a weather-related schedule change with calm and understanding, your child will see that it's okay to adjust plans for the right reasons. They’ll learn that it's more important to focus on safety and well-being than to stubbornly adhere to rigid schedules.
Effective Communication Is Key
One of the biggest challenges in co-parenting, particularly when unexpected events like bad weather arise, is communication. Clear, respectful, and timely communication is essential to avoid misunderstandings, conflicts, or frustration.
Give Notice Early
As soon as you become aware of inclement weather, it’s crucial to notify your co-parent about any changes to the schedule you might need to make. Don't wait until the last minute. The more time both of you have to make adjustments, the less stressful the situation will be for everyone involved.
Be Clear About Safety Concerns
If the weather conditions are dangerous, explain the reasoning behind your request for a schedule change in a calm and non-confrontational manner. Focus on the safety aspect, rather than the inconvenience or difficulty it might cause.
Propose Alternatives
If you’re requesting a change, offer a solution. For example, you could suggest a delay in the exchange or a rescheduled time to pick up or drop off the child. Being proactive in offering a resolution shows that you’re thinking of your child’s best interest, as well as the needs of your co-parent.
Stay Calm and Respectful
It’s easy to let emotions get in the way, especially if you're dealing with an ex-partner with whom you have a complicated history. However, being respectful and solution-focused will help prevent unnecessary tension or arguments.
Navigating the Logistics of a Schedule Change
Sometimes it’s not just about agreeing on a change; it’s also about how to make the logistics of that change work. Here are some tips for navigating those logistical concerns:
Use Technology to Stay Connected
In today’s digital age, co-parents can take advantage of communication platforms like texting, email, or co-parenting apps (e.g., OurFamilyWizard, or AppClose) to coordinate and confirm schedule changes. These platforms also help ensure that everything is documented, reducing the chance of miscommunication or disputes later on.
Document Changes to the Parenting Plan
If you are making a change to the schedule, it’s important to keep a record of the adjustment. This can be especially useful if you're following a formal custody agreement or court order that requires documentation of schedule deviations. Having a clear record of what was agreed upon can help avoid conflicts in the future.
Be Willing to Make Up the Time
If you miss a scheduled exchange or delay a transfer because of weather, try to work with your co-parent to make up the time. Whether that means extending the next visitation, swapping days, or finding other ways to ensure the child maintains time with both parents, it’s important to maintain the balance of the parenting plan.
How to Handle a Rigid Co-Parent Who Refuses to Be Flexible
In some cases, one parent may refuse to be flexible about the schedule, even when the weather is hazardous. This can be frustrating and challenging, but it’s important to remain calm and stick to your own commitment to your child’s safety. Here are a few strategies if you find yourself in this situation:
Stay Calm and Focused on Safety: Remind the other parent that the child’s safety is the top priority. Stay calm and composed, and try to avoid getting into an emotional or confrontational argument.
Document Everything: If the other parent insists on sticking to the schedule despite weather conditions, document your concerns and any attempts you made to reach an agreement. This could be important in the event of future disputes or legal intervention.
Conclusion: Prioritize Flexibility, Safety, and Cooperation
When inclement weather strikes, the best approach for co-parents is to be flexible, communicate openly, and prioritize the safety and well-being of the child above all else. A rigid adherence to a parenting schedule is less important than ensuring that your child is safe and secure during extreme weather conditions. By compromising and demonstrating a shared commitment to their welfare, you create a positive, cooperative co-parenting dynamic that benefits everyone involved.
After all, co-parenting is about partnership. Sometimes that means making adjustments — even when it’s inconvenient. But in the long run, showing your child that safety and family well-being come first will teach them invaluable lessons about love, respect, and how to handle life’s uncertainties with grace.
When your co-parent simply can’t agree, it may be worth meeting with a family lawyer to discuss a legally enforceable and structured parenting schedule. If you are interested in doing so, you may contact my office at (859) 287-4078 or info@jdcooklaw.com (or fill out an inquiry form on our website homepage) for a consultation.
Prenuptial Agreements in Kentucky: A Smart Strategy for Protecting Your Future
When most couples think about marriage, they envision a life of love, commitment, and shared dreams. However, while it’s certainly romantic to focus on the "happily ever after," it's also practical to consider what happens if life doesn’t go according to plan. Divorce rates remain relatively high, and many couples are now opting for a prenuptial agreement (also known as a "prenup") before walking down the aisle.
Prenuptial agreements are not just for the ultra-wealthy or those entering a marriage with significant assets or a complicated financial background. In fact, a prenup can benefit couples of all income levels, offering clarity, security, and peace of mind.
What is a Prenuptial Agreement?
A prenuptial agreement is a legally binding contract that a couple signs before getting married. It outlines the division of assets and liabilities in the event of divorce, as well as any other financial or property-related matters that the couple agrees upon. The primary purpose of a prenup is to reduce conflict, avoid costly litigation, and ensure that both parties are clear about their rights and obligations in the event of a divorce.
While a prenuptial agreement cannot dictate terms regarding child custody or child support, it can address things like spousal support, the division of property, and debts acquired during the marriage.
Benefits of a Prenuptial Agreement if Divorce Occurs
While no one enters a marriage expecting it to end in divorce, being prepared can offer peace of mind. Here are some key benefits of having a prenuptial agreement in place if your marriage does unfortunately end:
1. Clear Property Division
One of the primary benefits of a prenuptial agreement is the clarity it provides when it comes to property division. Kentucky is an equitable distribution state, meaning that in the event of divorce, assets will be divided fairly—but not necessarily equally. A prenup can ensure that both parties agree in advance on how property, including real estate, bank accounts, retirement accounts, and investments, will be divided.
Without a prenuptial agreement, there may be disputes over what is considered separate property versus marital property. In Kentucky, marital property includes assets acquired during the marriage, while separate property includes assets owned before the marriage or received as gifts or inheritances. A prenup can clearly outline which assets each party considers separate, eliminating any ambiguity and reducing the likelihood of disagreements in the future.
2. Protection from Debt
Debt is a major concern for many couples. Without a prenuptial agreement, if one spouse has significant debt, the other could be responsible for a portion of it in the event of a divorce. A prenup can specify that debts incurred by one party before the marriage or during the marriage (under certain conditions) will remain the responsibility of the individual who acquired them. This can help ensure that both parties are not burdened with debts they did not accumulate.
3. Spousal Support Clarity
While Kentucky courts have discretion when it comes to awarding spousal support, a prenuptial agreement can outline spousal support terms ahead of time, providing predictability and reducing emotional stress. For instance, if one spouse has a significantly higher income or assets, the other spouse may be entitled to support, but a prenup can set parameters on how much, how long, or even if spousal support would be awarded at all.
4. Avoid Lengthy and Costly Litigation
Dividing assets and determining the terms of a divorce can often become a contentious and expensive process. When couples can’t agree on how to split their property, this may lead to prolonged litigation, increased legal fees, and emotional distress. Having a prenuptial agreement in place significantly reduces the likelihood of lengthy courtroom battles. Since the couple has already agreed on how their assets will be divided, much of the work is already done.
A well-crafted prenup can save both parties time and money in the event of a divorce, allowing the process to proceed more smoothly. It also provides a clear roadmap for resolving disagreements, leaving less room for contentious negotiations.
5. Protecting Family Businesses and Inherited Assets
If one or both spouses own a business or expect to inherit significant assets, a prenuptial agreement can protect those interests. Without a prenup, a family business could be considered marital property and subject to division in the event of a divorce. A prenup can outline how business interests will be handled if the marriage dissolves, ensuring that family businesses or inherited property stay within the family.
For example, if one spouse inherits a family business or receives significant inheritance during the marriage, the prenup can specify that these assets remain the separate property of the inheriting spouse, even if the couple separates. This can prevent a situation where a spouse with no involvement in the business claims a share upon divorce.
6. Peace of Mind and Open Communication
While discussing a prenuptial agreement may feel uncomfortable at first, it encourages important conversations about finances, expectations, and responsibilities within the marriage. This kind of communication can strengthen the relationship by addressing potential issues before they become major sources of conflict.
A prenup ensures that both parties understand each other’s financial goals, obligations, and concerns from the outset, creating a solid foundation for the marriage. It can also reassure both spouses that, regardless of what happens in the future, they have a plan in place that reflects their needs and intentions.
Conclusion
While no one wants to consider the possibility of divorce, a prenuptial agreement offers a practical way to protect both parties and ensure that the process is as smooth and fair as possible if the marriage ends. In Kentucky, a prenup can address property division, debts, spousal support, and other important financial matters, all while reducing the likelihood of costly and time-consuming litigation.
As a family law attorney in Kentucky, I encourage couples to have open, honest conversations about their finances before marriage and to consider the potential benefits of a prenuptial agreement. It can provide peace of mind, ensure fairness, and make difficult decisions easier if divorce ever becomes a reality.
If you’re considering a prenuptial agreement or have questions about how one may benefit your specific situation, contact my office at (859) 287-4078 or info@jdcooklaw.com (or fill out an inquiry form on our website homepage) for a consultation.